fix(calls+scraper): 语音群scope服务端过滤+对话发现缺口补全+抓取韧性三连修

- /api/calls 加 scope=friend|group(@chatroom后缀判群,与isRoom实测等价120=120),CallList去掉「全部」tab改服务端查
- 对话发现:全部customer pair ∪ 语音pair(weChatId,talker),未扫过的排最前——修复纯语音关系客户聊天记录永远空(35%语音客户pair从未扫过)
- voice-calls改浏览器直发(isRoom=0/1双趟+WA callSource=4,拦截方式已两次失效)
- 断连恢复重试30×2min(云客约3h一次断连,已实战扛过多次)
- WA messages upsert改整列表直调(_upsert_all逐条传dict被迭代成key字符串→TypeError)
- 405测试绿含scope新增3个

Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

yunkes/src/views/CallList.vue

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ const callType = ref<CallChannel>(
 
 // 微信语音 tab scope filter: 对齐云客 微信好友/微信群 二分(isRoom 0=好友, 1=群)。
 // 仅在 voice_call tab 生效;client-side 过滤当前页。
-const voiceScope = ref<'all' | 'friend' | 'group'>('all')
+const voiceScope = ref<'friend' | 'group'>('friend')
 
 const calls = ref<PhoneCall[]>([])
 const total = ref(0)
@@ -64,6 +64,8 @@ async function load(): Promise<void> {
   try {
     const res = await getCalls({
       channel: callType.value,
+      // 微信语音 好友/群 scope 为服务端过滤(@chatroom 后缀判群,与云客 isRoom 等价)
+      scope: callType.value === 'voice_call' ? voiceScope.value : undefined,
       page: page.value,
       page_size: pageSize.value,
     })
@@ -97,7 +99,7 @@ watch(
       callType.value = next
       page.value = 1
       // 复位 scope,避免把 微信群/好友 筛选带到 WA语音。
-      voiceScope.value = 'all'
+      voiceScope.value = 'friend'
       load()
     }
   },
@@ -136,19 +138,11 @@ async function exportCalls(): Promise<void> {
 }
 
 /**
- * 当前表格要渲染的行。非 voice_call tab 原样返回;voice_call tab 按 voiceScope
- * 依 isRoom(0=好友, 1=群)做页内过滤。云客 isRoom 可能是 number/string/boolean,
- * 三种都判一下。
+ * 好友/群 scope 切换 → 服务端重查(与云客一致按 isRoom 分舱,分页/总数都对)。
  */
-const displayCalls = computed<PhoneCall[]>(() => {
-  if (callType.value !== 'voice_call' || voiceScope.value === 'all') {
-    return calls.value
-  }
-  return calls.value.filter((row) => {
-    const v = cell(row, 'isRoom')
-    const isGroup = v === 1 || v === '1' || v === true
-    return voiceScope.value === 'group' ? isGroup : !isGroup
-  })
+watch(voiceScope, () => {
+  page.value = 1
+  load()
 })
 
 /**
@@ -283,14 +277,13 @@ onMounted(load)
       size="small"
       style="margin-bottom: 8px"
     >
-      <el-radio-button value="all">全部</el-radio-button>
       <el-radio-button value="friend">微信好友</el-radio-button>
       <el-radio-button value="group">微信群</el-radio-button>
     </el-radio-group>
 
     <el-table
       v-loading="loading"
-      :data="displayCalls"
+      :data="calls"
       stripe
       border
       row-key="call_id"